friends ?

what is the honest true definition of a friend ? how do you ever determine who is really there for you , who is using you , two timing you , lying , back stabbing , loving , REAL ? within the past few months ive seen so much , TOOOO much , so much bullshit , lies , betrayal , FAKE . its fucked up because , when someone tells you they got love for you , or you like a brother or sister , they wont do you wrong , you want to believe that , you want that to be what happens . but in reality , as far as i see , you only have yourself . people are selfish , self centered . if someone is your bestfriend , you dont call them a bitch , a fuck nigga . when things get rough you dont dip . if something dont go your way you dont throw a fit . you man the fuck up & be there even if its just a shoulder to lean on . you shouldnt want to throw away your friendship because some petty shit . if you dont benefit from something you should still want to involve yourself . and i may be ranting on & on but this shit bothers me & i been seeing so much of this . you claim your 100 , your real ? alllllll this bullshit . lmfao , funny . not to mention , this person was there for you through thick and thin , through good & bad . now something happens and all they need is as little as to see your face , but you cant do that ? you cant make a little bit of an effort ? this right here right now is more important then anything , fuck borrowing money , fuck all that . this shit here ? this shit real . you can say oh im there my nigga , i got you no matter what , but WHERE THE FUCK YOU AT NOW ?! save that shit for someone else . actions speak louder then words , dont talk bout it , be bout it . life is moving fast , and you only have so many chances .