relationship 101.

This is my personal opinion , soooo FUCK what you think; thanks ;)

I see girls walking down the street with some booty shorts on and shirts tied up , tryna holla at every guy they see . I hate that . A girl needs to be a LADY ! Not a whore . But them same girls cry when they cant find a guy that wants to be with them . Hmm , maybe if you presented your self like a lady and carried yourself the right way NOT like a skeeza a guy would actually want alot more then sex. But when you look and act a certain way thats all the guy see's. Then we hear all these songs about sex sex sex sex and hoe this bitch that . Why ? Cause nasty girls give other girls bad names . Now its one thing if you slept with a guy, regret it deeply and you realized you messed up. But to keep going out acting the way you do? Throwing yourselfs on guys? Nothing is going to change. Their going to keep trying to have sex with you. You'll keep giving in cause they tell you exactly what you want to hear and nothing will be solved.

Then you there are girls who are just straight BITCHES ! Your relationship wont last. Because in a relationship there are two people involved NOT just you . So to think the world revolves around you is a no no. Respect you guy the way you want him to respect you. And just cause you "suspect" a guy flirting with some other girl dont mean go out and CHEAT . No you arnt getting even. Guys are guys. they flirt. But lets face it. Girls do to. Its human nature. That dont mean we are going to try and get with that person. Another thing, joking. When your in a relationship. You have to know when to joke around and when not to. Especially with guys. They say things all the time and joke around. DONT take it seriously. they obviously care about you and like you if they are with you. Just cause it made fun of you for one little thing isnt a big deal. If anything he's playing around with you because he thinks it's cute. That dont mean cuss him out and flip out on him calling him an asshole -___-

Sometimes you have to think to yourself. What if the shoe was on the other foot and things got switched around ? Would you like to be treated the way you treat your guy ? No i doubt it. True alot of guys out there DO cheat, DO use girls, DO try to be a player. But you just got to find the right ones, the good guys, and give them a chance. You have to come to turns and realize not every guy out there is going to hurt you . But try taking it slow instead of rushing into things. For instance. Sex ? Take your timeeeee ! You have all the time in the world to have sex. Why rush it with one guy ? And if he tries to rush you or pressure you? Thats probably all he wants and you need to let him go. Sex is meant to be a beautiful thing shared between two people. It should have meaning to it. And be very special to you both.

UGH ! some people just dont learn o.O