Assholes ?

Been meaning to wrote about this..

A few days ago i was talking to my girls bout this shit. on the “we only like asshole” theory. i’ve been meaning to write more in depth about this for awhile, and was reminded about it again yesterday when one of the least asshole guys i know complained about his ex gf taking advantage. my homegirl jessica said something too, she was on-fuckin-point.
“Usually, we are fooled by a man dressed in tinfoil who pretended to be a knight in shining armor.But by the time we uncover the truth it’s too late - we’re already in love, caught up, or too involved. And thensometimes we’re attracted to men we know aren’t good for us because we simply hope we’re wrong. Whatever the reason be, it’s definitely NOT because we want an asshole.

what i "KeaKea" wants- is someone who will let us walk WITH them and not walk all over them. Someone who will allow us to be the strong women we are but still put us in our place when need be. Someone who would do anything in the world for us but WON’T, just so we stay appreciative. Someone who is nice but NOT a pushover. Someone who can be jealous at times, but never insecure. Someone who is a man’s man but let’s us put makeup on him when we’re bored and in need of a good laugh. Someone who lays all their cards on the table BUT plays them well. Someone who has his own agenda, own routine, own dreams, own friends, own priorities, and own life - but is willing to share NOT give them to us.”